“When you watch the Academy Awards for best actors and actresses and films, the winner always thanks a host of people that formed his/her support network... It is good to be able to fulfil your dreams but for a lot of people, dreams remain dreams.”
  • The mother explains that even individual success depends on many people. support network = family, mentors, friends and helpers who make success possible.

    Yaar, "self-made" wala myth tod do. Koi bhi akele kuch nahi karta. Family, teachers, friends, random strangers jinhe pata bhi nahi ki unhone help ki — sab hote hain. Maa yahi bol rahi hai Ming ko.

  • She uses the Academy Awards example to show that achievement is rarely solitary. example = a familiar public event makes the idea easy to understand.

    Oscar ceremony dekho — winner pehle kya karta hai? "Main thanks dena chahta hoon..." list khatam nahi hoti. Maa ne yeh example isliye diya: success ka credit spread hota hai, sirf akele ka nahi hota.

  • She also recognises that many dreams remain only wishes because people stop at wishful thinking or choose security. wishful thinking = hoping without action or planning.

    Wishful thinking = sirf sochte rehna, karte kuch nahi. Kitne log kehte hain "ek din main yeh karunga" — aur woh ek din kabhi nahi aata. Security choose karte hain kyunki safe rehna easier lagta hai. Yahi most dreams ka dukhi ending hai yaar.

Hinglish explanation: Mother yahan ek important myth todti hai: success kabhi fully solo nahi hota. Har winner ke peeche support network hota hai. Saath hi, bahut log dream sirf bolte rehte hain, action nahi lete, ya security ke liye dream trade kar dete hain.

NCERT Questions (from the Textbook)
Role of Parents and Community

(From "Reflect and Respond") See full Reflect and Respond section

Role of Parents and Community
What role can parents and community play to help children achieve their dreams?
How to answer: Mention both emotional support and practical support. Do not reduce the role only to money.
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Parents and community can provide emotional support, guidance, resources, exposure and encouragement. They can help children identify their strengths, accept failures, make realistic plans and continue working even when the path becomes difficult.

Practice Board Pattern Questions Mapped to Exam Format
Fill in the Blank. 1 mark
The winner at the Academy Awards thanks a host of people who formed the support __________.
How to answer: Use the exact phrase used in the extract.
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The correct word is network .

Network. "Support network" = woh log jo help karte hain. Har winner ke peeche family, team, mentors hote hain. Academy Awards ka example famous aur relatable hai. Text mein clearly "support network" hai yaar.

MCQ. 1 mark
What does “wishful thinking” mean in the context of the letter?
A. a dream backed by detailed planning
B. a hopeful belief that does not move into action
C. a dream already achieved
D. a practical investment plan
How to answer: Connect “wishful” with wanting, and “thinking” with not doing.
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The correct answer is B. a hopeful belief that does not move into action .

“Wishful thinking” = sapna dekhna but kuch karna nahi. Sirf “kaash hota” mein rehna. Difference: wishing = passive, doing = active. Maa bol rahi hai: agar sirf wish karte raho aur action nahi lete toh sapna sapna hi rehega yaar.

Short Answer. 2 marks
Why does the mother mention people whose dreams were changed by circumstances?
How to answer: Avoid blaming the dreamer; include external circumstances.
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She mentions them to show that not every unrealised dream is due to laziness. War, poverty, family responsibility and other circumstances can force people to change or postpone their dreams.

Isliye ki Ming ko pata chale — dreams change hona normal hai. Life circumstances control nahi hoti hamesha. Agar sapna badal bhi jaaye toh yeh failure nahi. Maa reassure kar rahi hai: path change ho sakta hai, direction nahi yaar.

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